Well long time no blog.!! Not that i was busy and all, just was not able to make me write one.!! But now i am too bored and hence decided to write something about what i feel now.!And again the warning of the previous blog remains.
I just read a blog written by one of my friend about embracing defeat.! Yes it is true that without defeat you wont know the value of success but that does not mean you got to be happy with defeat. Lets get to the common argument that we do love success because it is what is accepted by the society and not the want to become successful. How foolish is it.!!:) Lets see what would happen when everyone starts treating success as failure and failure as success, hmmm.. This is what you would say - Oh great ! You have lost the wimbeldon good you are the champion, everyone would start working to be the last and how would that be possible ? By not doing anything,not doing your best,you would compete saying hey i did more nothing that you.!! He he how absurd..!!
True, one who is defeated is forgotten, yes he is not noticed because everything should be earned nothing should come for just the sake of it, you wont be able to enjoy it. He is not noticed, praised because he does not deserve it. You cannot show mercy and make one feel good.!! One can feel happy only if he deserves what he gets, only if he has earned it so he can brag about it.!
Come on no body can say i deserve defeat, if you do well fine then you also deserve not to be noticed. If the society starts giving equal importance to defeat as it gives to success then what is the motivation left to succeed which is tough than being defeated.
Yes again defeat has its importance but not to the society, society should see the defeated person with contempt,but to the person it should be the defeat that should teach him how to succeed. It is the fear of pain of defeat that would make a man to succeed. If not you wont have anything in the world. It is on success the world revolves on, if one had not succeeded on inventing computer you wont be reading this blog. So think before you say something of embracing defeat, if you do it so that you know the value of success go ahead and embrace 100 defeats,but if it is because you think defeat and success are same be careful, it is this thought that would bring doom to the world. You should be embarrassed by defeat.Its only until there is a fire to succeed that life would persist on the world.
Happy success and painful defeat.!!
Nandha
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2 comments:
It some how doesnt feel like u are writing...U asking some one else to write in ur blog ??? :P
needed multiple readings to get a few stuff.. thanni pottu eludhina mathiri irukku :)..nice post .. i had a diff opinion on that embracing defeat stuff.. and ur interpretation seems to be diff..
"Lets get to the common argument that we do love success because it is what is accepted by the society and not the want to become successful."..from my understanding of the post under debate..the so called WANT to become successful inturn arises from the societal acceptance thingy only..
besides .. didnt know that you were this positive ...creepy :P...
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